Yaani nimefanya kautafiti kangu ka kutosha na nimepata jibu asilimia 90 ni kwamba wake za watu wanagegedwa ovyo kuliko wanawake waliosingle.
Mimi hapa kwa mfano ni ngumu sana kunigegeda, yaani ni hadi nipende na kazi sana hata kama nina hamu mwaka mzima, ninakuwa na pride flani hivi na papuchi yangu japo sipangiwi. Hata nikikubali lazima tupange kuhusu location, usalama wa afya zetu, mimba etc.
Ila wake za watu bana wanagegedwa tu ovyo ovyo, hata chooni, kwenye magari etc hawawazi cha usalama wa afya zao, mimba zisizotarajiwa wala nini wao ni kitu tu tu. Ndo wadau wa cha fasta pia wanagegedwa na mtu yoyote maana hana commitment na mtu si ana mume wake tofauti na sisi masingle tunaselect wewe sijui aweje etc.
Kuna wanawake nipo nao around ni wake za watu, wana watoto ila wanavyogegedwa Mungu shahidi au wana papuchi mbili? Ila dunia haipo fair. Leo anagegedwa apate ada ya watoto, kesho marejesho saccos na vicoba, sijui apate sare ya kitchen party.
Mara anunuliwe bia basi tu papuchi ndo parttime job zao.
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